Friendships can be just as toxic as any other type of relationship. It’s okay to cut toxic friends out of your life. You don’t have to suffer through it just because they’re your “friend.” I know it’s hard, but better people will come.
I wish there were more discussion about friendship breakups and how hard they are. Romantic breakups have songs, movies, cultural weight. You can talk about breaking up with a significant other on social media and expect sympathy. Nobody talks about breaking up with friends.
I know that’s because of amatonormativity and how romantic relationships are seen as ‘more important’ than friendship. Which is bullshit. We need to talk more about the importance of friendship and how much it hurts when suddenly someone you thought you knew and trusted decides you’re no longer an important part of their life.
This obviously doesn’t just apply to arospec people. It just been on my mind a lot recently and I thought it’s something aro people could really relate to.
you know that thing in youtube poop where they make someone respond to three or four different things with the same repeated line but on the last one they turn the gain up a lot so the last response is really loud and distorted but it doesn’t actually sound like they’re raising their voice? i wish i could do that in real life
not to be fake deep but admitting you fucked up and saying you’re sorry is 100000000x more rewarding than defending flawed views or thoughtless if unintentionally so actions, 10/10 would recommend, it’s not losing face it’s earning respect
get used to the fact that people will come into your life because they like the idea of you and not the reality of you. you are amazing and will do great things with or without them
Ok this is my R18 blog where I’ll put my nsfw art and reblogs of hot guys and everything I like. I’m really sick of jerks that judge you for any thing you do so from now this will be the space where I will have all the cute things and cute boys I need. I love kawaii things and sexy boys. I would love to make friends with the same interests hehe.